10 Ways to Fall In Love With Yourself

The Only New Year’s Resolution You Need is to Fall in Love with Yourself.

Let me clear the air before I go ahead, this is Not a Just-For-Singles Post. Its For everyone.

There’s a reason why Justin Timberlake wrote the love Song – “Mirrors“.
And, there’s a reason why it won so many awards. Besides being a love tale set in reflections and promises, it states a quite obvious fact that- You truly love a person, when you see yourself in them; for that you must love the person you see in the mirror in the first place.

Today, I am here to state some super obvious facts which you might have stopped paying attention to. Life can get ruthless and mean, its a judgmental world. But, I am here to remind you that ‘You are the Most Important Person in your life‘.  So, love what’s important, you can take care of other stuff later.

1. Love Your Mistakes

Your Mistakes make you the person you are. Remind yourself of the mistakes and before negative thoughts take over you, turn right to the fact that you won’t make them anymore. Realize the fact that how important it was to make those mistakes and learn so much from them, besides the fact you don’t have to worry about them happening again. Mistakes shape your Character in ways, nothing else can.

 

2. Give In to One Of Your Fears

Scared of the Dark ? Spend sometime in your room with lights out. Scared of Your Crush ? Just make a conversation. This will make you believe in yourself more than ever, and when you believe in yourself- you are infallible.

 

3. Love Your Body

Curves, Love handles, bones, skin, hair… every inch.

 

4. Make Time For Yourself

Pamper the God/Goddess within you. Do the things you like and skip the things you don’t.

 

5. Find Your Happy Place

Superwoman calls it “Unicorn Island”, you can call it anything you wish. Everything ideal and everything that makes you Smile.

 

 

6. Count Smallest of your Achievements

Grabbing the last ticket at the Theater or tossing the garbage right inside the bin, what was your Least Greatest Achievement ? For me it was plugging my charger with lights out.

 

 

7. Picture Yourself 20 years from now

Think Of Where you see Yourself in 20 years from Now and Pen it Down. Write down all you want to have in your future life, mention what qualities will bubble in your future-self. E.g. – I see myself living bungalow with a cute little Yorkie. I am Kind, patient and a fit person. I exercise regularly and drink green tea.

You will need this picture for the choices you make now.

 

8. Write A Love Letter to Yourself

Tell the most important person – how beautiful their hair looks after blow dry, what an amazing bathroom singer they are and everything that you love about yourself. Flatter Yourself.
Seal it in an envelope and save it for the rainy days.

 

9. Find Your Jam 

This Should be the song that makes you go like “Bitch, I’m Fabulous.”
A song that you can sing, you can dance on and totally lifts your mood no matter what. Try not go for those Situation songs. I would say “Fancy” by Iggy Azalea is a great choice.

 

10. Kiss Yourself in The Mirror

Lets call it SDA – Self Display Of Affection. You are not self obsessed, you just deserve all that love. So, do it atleast 5 times… cause sometimes Self-Love Is All You Need.

 

 So, Basically –

Be the Star of your movie. To Love another we must love ourselves first.

Have A Happy February ya all !!

Love,
J

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