Sunflower

The sun has different meanings – to some it is light, to some it is scorching heat, to some optimism of sunshine… and I stand here basking in the sun… without a care about tan or freckles, because ‘my sun’ is asleep in my bed. I wonder would it be too much to call myself a sunflower, would you call me sissy or Instagram-influenced ? Still following your every move and doing my own thing too – my days be spent looking for you and nights waiting for you. The rain would come and I’d still stand tall – for you gave me strength to go through it all. Somedays you’ll shine too bright, the glare would hurt my eyes and you’d ask me for time – my yellow petals would look down confused, the night would take over and I’ll wait for you. The birds will keep me up at night and I know I have to tell you that rainbows will never be sunshine.

Love,

J

Beautiful Artwork by Xuan Loc Xuan

Wings I Wrote – The Blog of My Life

Creativity and hobbies take a backseat when it comes to pursuing a degree in Med School. Soon after I cleared my tenth grade, I went from being in the school editorial team to a textbook-reading bore in college. Of course I used to write now and then for the college magazine, but my thirst to express was never fulfilled.

Marching into second year of college, I came across the idea of blogging. I procrastinated, thinking it was too much commitment – I was never a Journal person, to be honest. Being the Gemini I am, I struggle at being constantly interested in the same thing. I worship change. My laptop screen literally escalated between House MD and 90210. So, the question to blog or not remained inconclusive.

College is a turning point for every individual. It is one of those times in life, when you are actually aware of the decisions you take and experiences you choose to be a part of. For most of us, its our first taste of independence as an adult – And, good lord ! Independence tastes damn good. I could finally choose something I wanted to eat, without worrying about what my parents would think or if it was some particular day of the week. In between those moments, I actually felt that I was evolving. Each day in college, I felt less of the school girl I was. Lyrics made more sense, Egg dosa made more sense and theatre popcorn prices made absolutely no sense. I was reinventing myself and all I could think of was I want to document this. I want the future me to know how it feels to be here at the grey zone, before its too late and I no longer recognise myself with the person I used to be. I thought I owe myself that.

Bundling up all the enthusiasm, I googled – ‘Best blogging wesbite’, I remember that typo till this day, which I quickly corrected and made an addition “Best Blogging Website 2014”. After a long night of research, I decided on a website and a blog name. I was always obsessed with metaphors and the idea of flying being synonymous with success. I wanted my blog to be about my journey where every decision I made was added as a feather on my back. And I made a promise to myself to remember that I am blogging for me. ‘Wings I Wrote’, I typed and my journey as a blogger began. I sure have made some questionable decisions in my life, but Wings I Wrote will never be one.

Four years ahead, Wings I Wrote is my escape from life’s chaos. Whether its a playlist I am dancing to or a restaurant I am dining at, everything I share – is truly, unapologetically and unfiltered ME.

Image Courtesy : Vikram Loona

Thank you for being here, I appreciate you.

I wrote this piece for my college magazine earlier this year. When I was asked to write a piece on my blog by the Editor, I knew it was a story that I have to share before I graduate. I think people often think that being in Med School means just books and libraries – eventhough its true, but not the ‘just’ part. I hope my article inspires more people to express themselves and have fun. You are a different version of you everyday, busy or not – make time to Celebrate yourself, whenever you can.

Wings I Quote #55

My Beach Vacation

Leaning by the window, feeling the breeze between my fingers… almost pushing my palm and then slowly leaving without a whisper. O Wind ! Where are you taking me ? Or is it me who is taking you ?… I thought to myself watching trees pass. ‘Right from here, right ?’, I quickly collect my thoughts and sit upright to indulge in the map app, already open in my phone. ‘ er… one second… yes right from here’, I direct. She smirks and turns the volume up. Blasting on the speakers now was our trip song and we sang along with our arms talking for our bodies.

Flipping our hair in the rearview mirrors, we step out – the sun almost welcoming us, in the background my phone exclaims ‘your destination is on the left’. We, girls, roll our eyes ; put on our sunglasses and head to the horizon (on the left). The sand giving us the warmest hugs, slipping between our toes but yet easy to let go. O Sand! How do you remain soft after facing such wrath of the sun ? Balancing our bags and excitement, we reach the shore… where the two lovers meet – sand and the sea. Feeling the magic in the air, we danced as if celebrating the great union.

Walking in the wet sand, I stop to look back if my footprints were perfect… guess it didn’t matter cause the waves took them away. ‘Finally, we reached’, my friend announces. In that moment , I had the common philosophical phenomenon hit me – It doesn’t matter how you get there, as long as you do ! Quite a few pints down, maybe it made sense or maybe it didn’t… but I sure was pumped up with optimism.

I take off my sunglasses to watch the beautiful beach, stretching my legs and relaxing on the beach chaise. The umbrella above giving me exact light for the perfect pictures. My girls wave to me playing on the shore, I wave back sipping my Pina colada. Taking a deep breath and laying down, I think to myself – O Life ! Thank you, I understand now.

 Image Courtesy: Pallak Shaw 

Love,

J

Pinacolada is by far my favourite cocktail. One of the very first article in this section was named that; I was struggling with a lot back then. Year after (I think), here I am with another Pinacolada in my hand – Celebrating life! If this isn’t victory, then I don’t know what is.

Thank you for reading !

Wings I Quote #53

AMP UP THAT SAREE !

Gotta wear a Saree for an upcoming Occasion ? Don’t Be Boring !
Be it ethnic day in college, school farewell or your best friend’s engagement; choosing to wear a saree is a classic choice. What comes with the idea of draping up a saree for an event is the insecurity of looking too aunty (older) or too plain or maybe running into someone wearing the same colour combination as you. I got you covered on all your doubts with my list of all the amazing things you can do to Amp up that saree look !

1. Update Your Blouse Game

Its not a new thing to say that your blouse design is as important as your saree. Every year there are new designs added to the usual lot. Here are some interesting ideas :

Cape Blouse

 

Mirror Work and Kalamkari Blouse

 

Off Shoulder Blouse

 

Single Sleeve Blouse

 

Peplum Corset

 

Heavily Embellished Blouse

 

Velvet Blouse

 

Coat and Waistcoats

 

 Sexy Back

 

 

2. Ditch The Brights

Instead of going in for magenta, blue or yellow, indulge in shades of nude. You will be surprised how elegant they look.

 

 

3. Change the Drape Rules

Now this idea is perfect for those who like to break the rules. Equally great if you are planning to wear the same saree as your besties/sisters.

 

 

4. Monochrome Patterns

This is for the lady who loves black and white. Kareena Kapoor giving us those Miss (or Mrs) Independent vibes in this ensemble.

 

 

5. Mismatch

Say goodbye to coordination and hello to mismatch. Jacqueline Fernandez totally nailed the tomboy-ethnic look.

 

 

6. Color Loyal

Instead of going for a contrasting blouse, go for a blouse that matches your saree. For once give up on that gold blouse for every saree.

 

7. Dhoti Saree

Always felt comfortable in Pants than skirt ? this is for you. Great for those planning to dance at the event too.

 

 

8. Saree Gown

When luxury meets elegance, a saree turns into a gown.

 

 

9. Waist Belt

Wanna show off your perfect waist ? This idea is great and also keeps your drapes in place.

 

 

10. Maangtika and Head Gear

Recommended for those who have a wide forehead. Also, if your hairstylist ruins your hair this could rescue you.

 

 

11. Cape Necklace and the Choker

Cape necklaces add so much glam to a rather plain look. This one is available at Prerto. 

We all know about chokers, its been the trend of this year. If you are already rocking the choker trend in your western casuals, you would love to wear them with your saree too. This one is available at Pipa Bella.

 

 

12. Hand Harness

Bangles can get boring. Try these instead.

 

NOTE: I do not own any of these images. The images shown here are purely for reference purpose.

 

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Wings I Quote #50

Thank You for Telling me this, Dear Friend. I love you.

18 TRENDS YOU JUST CAN’T MISS!

It’s Only August!  And, 2016 has already become a defining year for my Wardrobe. So, here I am Sharing my favourite trends – You Shouldn’t Miss on! But, first things first. Fashion is something that evolves season after season, they say nothing is really new in the Fashion Industry – it’s just the evolution of the old. And, the most important thing to know is to NOT TO GET CARRIED AWAY. Trends are for everyone, but your style is your own. So, Be Picky, Be Unique and Be You.

Fashion is what you’re offered four times a year by designers. And style is what you choose.
– Lauren Hutton

1. All About The Shoulders (and Arms)

This Trend I am sure you haven’t missed. I am talking about Cut-out Shoulders , Off  Shoulders, Cold Shoulders, One shoulder, One arm, Fringed Sleeves, Pom-pom Sleeves, Bell Sleeves, Flared Sleeves, extra long sleeves, cape sleeves …So many options to indulge in.

 

 

If you have seen the recent ethnic collection from Manish Malhotra, you would already know how beautiful an off-shoulder blouse can look. Go Princess Jasmine 😉

 

2. Choker And Collars

This is one trend that has come to compliment the Off Shoulder trend so well, it has me wondering how many Chokers can I have.

 

 

Although both collars and chokers being initially clubbed with the off shoulder trend, have now found a place of their own in our wardrobes. They are being paired with deep V necks, plunge necks, Shirts,  Sarees…everything.

 

 

3. Mattes and Nudes

With the age of Kylie Lip Kits marching in, the craze of Matte has become an obsession.

The Minimal make-up trend got an upgrade with a fair number of Nude shades to pick from.

Now we have Nude Eyeshadows, Nude nail lacquers and Matte Nail Lacquers too. And lets not forget about the Metallic Nudes.

4. Emoji Frenzy and Varsity Patches

If you have already seen emoji patchworks over denims, wait until you find them over Sheer tops.

 

They add fun to boring and quirk to serious.

 

 

5. Denim Reload

If you saw the last year as the year for denim, you must know the fever hasn’t come down yet. I am talking about ripped, distressed, Bell bottoms, patch work, embroidered, flared, fringed ends, rivets, pom poms, emojis etc.

 

6. Eye Games

Give your smokey eye a break and go for a thick and bold eyeliner look. See how Selena Gomez Did it.

Also Bright Shades for your Eye palette are the latest trend.

7. Prints! Prints! Everywhere!

That not so bright Middle-eastern print is everywhere and you know what?  Give it a Chance.

 

Just try a simple cold-shoulder printed dress with a pair of lace up flats or gladiators and Wear it with a cute beige sling or a fedora hat. Also, these prints work extremely well with Denims.

 

8. Make a Statement !

A single piece of Statement jewellery can add so much to your look and trust me I am not just talking about LBDs. You have to see how an antique silver necklace looks on a denim shirt.
If you like chunky bling rings, you will love hand harnesses too. Also, go for body chains and cape necklaces. Always remember to keep other pieces of jewellery minimal.

 

 

9. Overcoats, Trench coats & Capelets

This Fall, indulge in these trendy options to keep you warm. Choose from metallic details, patent leather, varsity patches, military green, fringes,  fur & velvet detailing. Capelets are for days you need the tiniest cover-up, trench coats are next level and overcoats are for full cover up.

Capelets

Trench Coats

Over Coats

 

10. Sneak it up!

If you loved wearing sneakers in your school days this is good news for you ! Now you can pair your sneakers with dresses, shorts, maxi skirts, culottes… basically everything in your wardrobe. Also, count in Classy Brogues and Oxfords ! Damn’ Daniel!

 

 

11. Ditch the Brights

We have moved on from Bright pop of colors to Neon shades and now everyone is obsessing over Tan brown, military green, powder blue, rusty pink, copper, creams and black. Less is More.

If you are not so sure to go all dull, try out the blush pink and yellow trend.

 

 

12. Fringe, Tassels and Pom Poms

Tassels can be totally Boho or totally desi. They are so versatile.
Fringes are no longer seen just as an hair style, they are invading our shoes, bags and everything.
Pom-poms are meant for the ladies who are not so sure about Fringes and Tassels, and are looking to add sass and cute to their look. Pom-pom charms for bags are the cutest.

 

13. Color Loyal

Sick of the Contrast Trend? Wear all the elements of your outfit in the same shade. For beginners, try shades of blue. For rule breakers, try all white!

 

 

14. EFFORTLESS Co-ords 

These Matching Separates are going from the Western casuals to Indian ceremonies.

15. Mocha Highlights

I am not much of a hair coloring person but I really adore this trend. I love how these highlights are not too loud and at the same time elegant and blend-able.

16. Black Overdose

This is good news for them Black Lovers. It’s time for All black, everything!

17. Reflective Sunnies 

Reflective sunglasses are in trend once again but of course with an update. If you don’t like your sunglasses too loud, don’t worry -You have plenty of shades in the reflective style to choose from.

18. Boots

Winter is Coming ! Choose from classic, velvet, fringed, tie up, over the knee, embroidered gladiators, heeled gladiators and metallic detailed boots. The Spice Girls style platform boots are in too.

 

 

Images Courtesy : Google Images
(I Do not own any of these images)

Thank You For Reading !
Hope You find this helpful ! Trends are constantly changing, so I want you to know that I wrote this  post in August 2016 . If you want to ask me any questions or give suggestions, please feel free to share your thoughts at the contact page or you can inbox me at wingsiwrote@gmail.com .

 

Wings I Quote #37

Why I started Going to the Gym?

Hello Readers !
How you’ve been ? Hope you all are doing great !
“Fitness” is a word everyone keeps talking about- its in the newspapers, its in the magazines, on the back of food packets and on your parents’ lips. Guidelines, Diets, what-to-eat, what-not-to-eat, how to get that actress’ thighs, tips for a tighter butt… la la la… the list is endless. All of them compelling you to try atleast one of those recommendations.
Today, let me tell you something about myself- I hate the idea of sweating , I am a foodie and my idea of sport is shopping.
Recently, I decided on going to the gym. Why? Here are the pointers :

1. Embarrassment of Fainting
   

2. If you skip breakfast, on the day you have that class where you have no option to sit. One moment you were standing and the next, whole class is trying to comfort you. I hate that sort of attention.
3. Needed to fit into “that” beautiful dress
   
4. I saw this insanely beautiful dress and it just won’t fit me the way its supposed to. I could do a little sweat to wear that beauty.
5. Can’t stop Munching
   
6. Being a foodie, I can’t stop wondering what I am going to eat next. Sight of a yummy dish gets me drooling.
7. 

8. Obsessed over those thin legs every Korean Drama actress has
   

9. Thin Legs make you look in anything and everything you wear.
10. 

11. I watched Victoria Secret Fashion Show
    

12. And, felt like two models will have to combine to make me.
13. 

14. Boyfriend
    

15. I feel anybody who is dating or crushing some hot guy can understand this. He just seems to get hotter and I just keep munching. I don’t want to hear later- That Couple’s like Laurel and Hardy!.
16. 

17. Diet control defaulters
    

18. I can’t seem to control my diet. I can’t seem to be regular at the healthy diet schedules. Every time a new restaurant opens in town, I am making weekend plans for a meal.
    So, atleast the workout will help me reduce the guilt.
19. 

20. Size dilemma
    

21. So, I have a lean top and broad bottom. It’s hard to be sure of any clothing, other than skater dresses. Can’t wear skater dresses all the time, right ?
22. 

23. Online Shopping
    

24. For a body with flab at a lot of places, Its so hard to be sure of what will fit you. Ordering online becomes a frustratingly confusing experience.
25. 

26. Unsuit Jumpsuits
    

27. People tell me – “Why don’t you Wear Jumpsuits? you have long legs.” Well, long legs are not all you need to fit into jumpsuits.
28. 

29.  Stress Buster

30. Unless you really like your temper getting on your nerves and then on people’s faces, take all that to the gym and make something productive out of it. You’ll be surprised !
31. 

32. Upcoming Vacation
    

33. Everyone wants to/needs to look amazing in Vacation pictures.
34. 
35. These were the reasons to why I started hitting the gym.
    Although I firmly believe, Whatever happens, You should Love your body – every curve and every edge.
    I will always be proud of mine.

Love,
J

Thank you for reading this post !
Hope you enjoyed reading it. Do you have reasons like mine on why you became fitness conscious ? Please share them with me. You can comment below or write on the contact page.